"Finally! A book that walks me step by step on how to be not only a successful man, but a Gentleman."

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I know how frustrating it can be to search for information on bettering yourself as a man.  There was nothing out there for me of real value.  What was out there, to be honest, was complete crap.  At a time when I was ready to start taking my own success more seriously, I was left with a decision.  I was either going to waste money on fancy marketing campaigns for products that offered nothing practical, or I was gonna venture off on my own quest knowing I would make a lot of embarrassing mistakes along the way.  This ebook is THE SOURCE that I was always looking for, and now it is available so you don't have to make the same embarrassing mistakes I did.

Hi, I'm Ashley.

For over 10 years I have been studying social science, conducting live social experiments, proving theories, and more.  I have had clients form all over the world referred to me by major organizations, magazines, and radio shows as the expert they trust.  I can honestly say, my success hasn't come without countless failures and humiliations.

I have been through every conceivable scenario when it comes to dating, success in business, self-development, and much more.  Now I want to bring you the lessons I have learned, so you don't have to make the same costly mistakes.

You Won't Believe The Stories I Have To Tell!

No matter how big or small your goals are, or even what those goals are, just a single tip from this comprehensive book can save you time and prevent you from making the same silly mistakes I did.

Just look at what you will learn:

  • Where have all the gentleman gone?
  • What is a 21st Century Gentleman?
  • A Gentleman's Worst Enemies - Pride & Ego
  • Discovering Your Purpose
  • The 5 Categories That Define A Gentleman's Life
  • Turning Negative "What If's" Into Positive "What If's"
  • Establishing A Positive Mental State
  • Affirmations
  • Self-Limiting Excuses
  • Cognitive Distortions
  • Limiting Beliefs
  • Eliminating Negativity
  • The Power Of Words
  • Understanding Masculine & Feminine Polarities
  • Identifying Your Personality Type
  • Taking Things Too Personally
  • How A Gentleman Gets A Lady
  • Understanding Women
  • Body Language & Tonality
  • Qualification
  • Framing
  • Logistics
  • Being Your Natural Self
  • and MUCH, MUCH MORE!

This (roughly) 300 page book, has all the answers you have been looking for.  The kind of information you can't find on the web.  The Modern Gentleman was created solely by myself, by someone who has been there, and you won't find this anywhere else.

  • How do I talk to a girl? Page 275
  • How do I stay motivated through my failures? Page 143
  • How can I relate better with others?  Page 204
  • How can I become more successful in business? Page 198
  • How do I discover my passions and purpose?  Page 32

"The Modern Gentleman opened my eyes in ways I never thought  possible"

Blake Witherspoon
19, Texas

"The Modern Gentleman" will be your best friend and companion as you travel along your journey towards your individual success.

What do I mean when I say I was humiliated?  I had a frozen margarita dumped on my head, I have been slapped, I have cussed out, and much more.

My successes has lead me to educate men around the world.  To be honest, I never thought I would get into coaching, but after seeing the smile on the face of my very first client, I was addicted.

All of my lessons are priceless to me, they have transformed me forever.

  • I am not longer on depression/anxiety medication.
  • I am living my dreams.
  • I am completely content.

What is the Modern Gentleman?

     Gentlemen of the 21st century are constantly evolving.  A gentleman understands his purpose and travels his chosen path of life with integrity.  He is grounded in his masculinity but also sensitive.  He is never worried about what he has to say, he is mannered, disciplined, and unapologetic for having a defined direction with his purpose.  The modern gentleman knows how to handle his temper and deals with annoyances in a serene way.  He never takes advantage of a woman, instead shows her the path of love and enlightenment.  The modern gentleman is constantly growing spiritually, mentally, and physically.  He is open to learning lessons the universe provides around him, i.e. a 4 year old boys amazement of a snow storm or a beautiful flower, or the wisdom of an 80 year old man.  A modern gentleman protects others status socially by handling awkward social situations with confidence and class.  He is punctual, and takes care of his appearance.  He is a man of his word, and unwavering in his code.  He has a personally defined code of conduct comprised of morals he will not waiver from, regardless of the presented situation or temptation.  Every action he takes is based from a place of love, not as a response to fear.  He is hard working, diligent, determined, and passionate.  A modern gentlemen understands what he wants, and is unapologetic for pursuing it.  He understands part of his purpose is to seek out his ideal attractive woman, and does so without fear but with confidence in his cause.  The modern gentleman is charming.  He leads by example, even if no one is watching.  He knows when to listen, and when to speak. When he does speak, it comes from his soul, not from his mind which has been corrupted with ideas and propaganda from society.

          A modern gentleman understands that he embodies both feminine and masculine energy, and understands the distinction between both.  A gentleman in the 1950's might have opened doors for his lady, was polite, had etiquette, and dressed well.  However, men of these times were also taught at a young age to be, "men."  It wasn't okay for little boys to cry when they got a sports injury, they had to ''walk it off" or "suck it up".   We could flash back a few hundred years before that when not only were men supposed to be tough, but they weren't even considerate towards their companion.  Women were seen as objects, who were for either to service their man sexually and domestically, or bare children.  In today's society this is not acceptable, because our species has evolved.  Just as a gentleman of the 21st century must evolve even further towards understanding the truth behind masculine and feminine energies and what that means.

My lessons and discoveries mean a fortune to me, how much would they mean to you if it took years off your learning curve?

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"I just wanted to say Thank You Ashley.  When I bought this book, I had a great girl messaging me all of the time, but she never would meet up with me.  Something always seemed to come up.  I have to admit...we aren't talking now...but that isn't your fault because that happened after our first date!  Thanks Again Bro

Zach Sipe, Montreal

Ashley has literally gone and done it again with Guerrilla Messaging.  He constantly delivers with each product, only providing real quality material in a way that can be mastered quickly and with ease.

Oliver King, Cliffslist.com

As a men's coach based on the eastern side of the world,  I was very impressed with how The Modern Gentleman was able to be so universally effective with women of all cultures, and not just westernized women.

Chris Bale, MasculineIntent.com

In my many years gallivanting in the seduction community, I have crossed paths with saints, sinners, gurus, wannabes, and many, many frauds. I am truly glad to say that Ashley, from Decoded Dating was none of them, but instead turned out to be one of the kindest, most genuine, and truly one of the most impressive instructors I have ever known.

I was a little hesitant at first, as the industry seems to breed more scam artists than genuine men nowadays. I spent a week getting to know Ashley. I've seen him coach students the way a father would; firm, gentle, but to the point. But what I found to be the most impressive was the genuine kindness this man exuded. His charm was firmly rooted in the incorruptibility of his spirit. Men gravitated to him, eager to soak up his knowledge, while women could not stay away, because he possessed a relaxed realness that most men lack nowadays.

Although I was not there to learn from him, Ashley was able to pinpoint some blind spots I hadn't even noticed about my own behaviour.

There are very few men I would endorse in this industry, but I have absolutely no qualms about recommending The Gentleman's Lounge to anyone who wants to really get their dating life handled.

You're in good hands.

Patrick Armen, CenteredManProject.com

I guess just like every other male I thought I was pretty good with women.  I wouldn't say I got every result I ever wanted, but I did get some.  I saw a video of Ashley speaking one time and he mentioned men like me.  Men who thought they were decent with women, and how he felt sorry for us because that thought would keep most men from ever striving to get better and grow socially.  I decided to take his Challenge and bought Guerrilla Messaging.  I hate to say it, but he was right.  I never discovered my true potential until after learning Guerrilla Messaging.  My only regret is I didn't start buying Ashley's products sooner.

Jonathan Miller, Louisiana

I really did want to get better with texting.  Honestly, I have had no issues getting a number but the attraction always seemed to die off during our text convos.  Not only has that improved, but I have actually been able to apply these methods to online dating.  Tinder has just become my newest playground!  Thanks Ashley!

Benjamin Lewis, UK

After recently having Ashley as a guest on my program, I was surprised to learn how truly passionate he was about helping men.  After reviewing his newest product, The Gentleman's Lounge, I could clearly see that passion come through with the massive amount of value and detail he has put into it.

Anna Ceachirova, The Man Inside Show


The Modern Gentleman's sales price is VERY LIMITED!


Very soon this book will be in book stores, and I will have to raise my price in order to cover the cost of print, distributors, etc.  Once this book is out in the bookstores, and in their online stores, I will have to match that price here on my website.

I strongly suggest if you are interested, you act now because this exclusive discount on the book is ending fast!!!

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Take yourself to the next level.  Do it for you, do it for your family, do it for your dreams.


Here's to your success!


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Ashley Shreve

Founder/CEO, DecodedDating.com

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